Comment on In Which I Am Told How to Parent My Son By Anonymous Commenters by ShoeboxofM.
The perfect parents are driven by fear. Their rush to judgment is a way of reassuring themselves that they are doing it right and bad things will never happen to them. They are wrong. Anything can happen, anything can go wrong.
The idea that they can have complete control over all the variables and the environment is either the misplaced arrogance of a god or the belief of a child.