I find it very hard to separate myself from the …

Comment on Opting Out of Autism: The Way is Shut by Shawna Ainslie.

I find it very hard to separate myself from the desire to “get my money’s worth” and the reality that my son actually absorbed enough of an experience that it’s all worth it. However, I also have a major problem with groups so I am learning not to force myself to stay in a situation that I will later have to recover from. It is very worth it to choose battles. You sound wonderful. Thank you for reading and sharing your experience.

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Thank you, Norah! I love sharing. I also love your resources. Outing myself as a lurker on your sites. 🙂

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There is so much assumption attached to certain abilities. I had to overcome quite a lot when my son’s younger brother surpassed him in some developmental areas. I was ultimately able to recognize that we all develop at our own pace, but my child is one of the biggest kids his age. Size complicates assumptions from the public as well. It’s a tragedy that we can’t look for the person inside the action. Thank you for sharing your voice here. <3

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I always has to come from love. I make the wrong choice sometimes. We all do. But, like I tell my kids: It’s okay to make a mistake/feel angry/etc. It’s what happens next that counts.

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